well, i've decided it's over.. i have a parenting plan in place, an a pad to crash at starting saturday and I will be finishing up the divorce paperwork next week. NO way in hell I'm living with a wife who thinks she can talk to her former "soul mate" while she is married to me. Hard for me when I think of the kids, but as far as I am concerned I deserve so much better than this. I know I can survive and thrive after this and wish her a happy life.