Here you go hun, the next bit in the story, gosh I feel like J.K Rowling lol!
Im away for a couple of days now for a works conference so will be back to say hi on friday evening uk time.
Honestly I know you think NC isnt doing much but it really is a powerful impact on the WAS. As much as they like to pretend they dont need you or remember you, even if its out of habit they will want to know what you are doing?
In regard to me saying about H saying, you never can be blase enough to believe that they will never do it again, you have been proved wrong once, you have lost the innocense of thinking that you would be together forever! Its hard and beleive me it hurts like hell to have lost that, although at least now H realises this and does do his best to work on giving me some security, but it is a long slow growing process..
Take care hun..
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
