Barb,

Have a Wonderful Thanksgiving. smile

The trip, do your best to just not worry about anything and enjoy it.

There is a reason you guys planned this, even though it may not be clear right now.

Remember when you dated your H? Early on, did you worry each and every minute what was going on? Where the R was going to end up?

I doubt it. Most of us just enjoy those times. Do that.

Tell the voices in your head to shut up for one weekend.

No R talks, no worrying about him texting or whatever. Just take a break from all of it, and have some fun.

Give yourself permission to do that.

What comes next, will be there when you get home and you worry about that then.

Try it, and see how you feel.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox