Talks do seem to help for you to improve the feeling of your situation.
You seem to like numbers/statistics, correct me if I've misunderstood (50/50 chance, 5% chance). Let that go, those numbers aren't real. What's real is your relationship, it's a living thing. You nurture it or you starve it. It's ever changing...not once and done. All relationships are. Change is the only constant. The 'one' thing....is the one that that is articulated today.
So change your behavior to change his behavior. Be flexible. You obviously still have love in your relationship. Let it breathe.
