Yes, I do have limited interaction with her about the kids and, unfortunately, we both have part-time jobs at the same place so I interact with her briefly there. Once every 2 weeks, which is when I usually talk about the kids.
All interactions are like nothing happened (which is appropriate because she never told me why she was leaving-I can guess). Or, is happening. We get a long just fine. There is always a little awkwardness at first, but no issues or fighting. I haven't had a relationship type talk with her since May. Our last interaction was a little more substantial, but equally light hearted.
She said she had to work on Thanksgiving and I invited her to come over afterward for some dinner. She said she "might just do that." I don't think she will, but she may if her friends don't have "better" plans (my guess).
I sense she still doesn't want to come home. I talked to her about quitting the part time job. She asked, "It's not just because of me is it?" I explained to her that I didn't like hearing about her life from other people and as she moves on I definately don't want to hear about other men. We talked lightly after this then me quitting came up again. I said that I didn't want to see her every two weeks. I paused. She stood there resolutely but I could tell she was somewhat bothered. Then I said, "I don't want to see you every two weeks, I want to see you every day." She looked at her hands and made a noise (her way of answering w/o answering), but didn't respond. I didn't belabor the point. I just moved on and said I hope we can talk someday. After that, back to old friend-like conversation.
So, basically, whenever we are together it's like she never left.
