Interesting Sandi, holidays made my fantasy a little larger too a couple of years ago...
I can't think of anything my H could have done to get me out of it at the time. I think it is the stress and pressure of having a 'wonderful' holiday that drove me into how that would happen in a greener pasture.
Sticking with the comment I made to you on my sitch...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."