I ordered the book Divorce Remedy and should have it in time to read this weekend. I'm sure I'll be back for more advice, thanks in advance for your replies. I have a few questions on detatching/180. If I normally am seeking attention from my wife by being the one to start conversations, sitting on the other end of the couch by her versus across the room, putting my hand on her when we sleep, etc... Do I stop doing all of that even though I really want and need that, especially now. I know her heart isn't into me right now, so not sure why I even seek that. I just don't want to be without even small amounts of affection as I am afraid she may be ok with that.
