I think its over help pls

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I do not know if exposing or not is worthwhile I am being strongly encouraged on another forum to do so. The only ones to tell are the grandparents. The social network is small mostly mine and wouldn't care her coworkers don't know me. Night shift. They do not do employee functions.
Well we just talked she started the conversation I remained calm throughout she got upset. She says she found a place she can move to a temp place. She wants to do so before xmass i asked for after. She wanted to discuss budget I asked not know she started anyway I said as little as possible because I knew It would cause a disagreement. She disagreed she got upset. Then went the total 180 and said fine whatever you want acting irrational. I told her she knows what I want, I had my hand on hers she did not pull away. My final statement to her and an apartment was ...you go and do what you need to I can not change how you feel you know what I really want, but I just ask for after xmass.
I am a terrible liar so she asked me if I have seen a lawyer and I admitted the truth of yes it was at my councillors recommendation. She got very upset over this I told her it was for information only and that I do not want a D repeating also that I ask she stay through the holidays.

She says she is tired of the tension between us.

Can a seperation actually lead to reconcilliation?

I tried to avoid the talking this morning but that made her more upset so I went with the conversation.

She still has not straight up asked for a Divorce. I am avoiding the words seperation and Divorce.