Thank you truegritter. I really want to have patience with both, and I have been set on that and fine with it until something like this comes up.
When we are told to do something by god, it is better to do it now, not when we feel we are ready. I am supposed to trust what he is telling me to do.
I really do not want to fight the DBing, it is what I have chosen to do, but I am torn.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair