Originally Posted By: Habitacker
How do I do both? It seems that it is not possible.


Look faith is a very personal thing.

I am not challenging that you have this belief and it is true for you.

I happen to believe God does speak to us very much in our lives in many ways.

It is how we interpret what we believe he is trying to tell us that is most important.

Did HE tell you when to do this?

There is a time to say this to your W Habit. And I am not God obviously.

I think that you have to have forgiveness and contrition in your heart to reconcile your M.

So yes. Come a day when this is something you must ask of your W and she of you IMO.

When she is ready to hear it from you.

And you are ready to say it without the need that she gives it to you.

God does it in HIS time. Do you suppose you know when that is?

I cannot tell you.

Keep your faith in this process and Him. It will serve you well through this journey.

It did me and that is all I can be witness to for you.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am