Girlfriend... it's time you DO tell him to F*ck Off.
He's being a dick, he's the one who's being immature. I don't know if this is helpful, but I did some time chatting with my T about how to respond to "stupidity" and your H expecting you to jump when he says jump def qualifies as stupidity. You need to be able to deflect this crap in a way that builds your self esteem not shove it down and cause you to pull your hair out after it happens. Talk this stuff out with the T team you're with now. Make it clear you need to be able to deal with this effectively so it doesn't start those "tapes" for you later. And btw... ignoring it... or turning the other cheek DOESN'T cut it. You require ways and techniques to deflect and put a stop to his b/s.
He wants your big girl panties... then fine... SHOW him.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
