g450: Well if it were me - I'd run. It does not sound like you are interested in the son and they DO come as a package. The mom should be concentrating on getting a job, proper living arrangements and being a mom before even considering dating. Sounds like she might be looking for a dad for her son or a meal ticket. Sorry if that sounds harsh but GEEZ - if that's all you're getting is a roll in the hay - there are plenty of other women out there.

3 months and sounds like you're signing up for a lifetime. I think you need to take a reality check before you end up in a shotgun wedding.

Barb