About exSIL, being very religious myself, I understand not wanting to D, but in my experience, her H is still cheating. If he erases texts, says she us controlling when asking (not demanding) certain things to help her trust, and no sex at all in 4 months; he is cheating. This was my exact sitch for years and I have read article after article using these exact clues.

It is hard to have a snow day. I hate when I get S ready then I hear it is called off, not that we get many.

Have a great Thanksgiving! Thanks for the dating tips too. I hope to use them soon. Fingers crossed.

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89