From reading the last couple posts in your thread it appears your M maybe in a better place then mine. I'm happy for you and I hope things go well today.

It's a slow road with mine, I feel progress somedays and then it goes backwards other days. I've continued to work on the issues with my parents - but my wife is not changed. She hates my mother, never wants to see her again and is saying stuff like "she isn't seeing my kids either". I've told her that my mother appears to have moved on, and that when I talked her she wasn't upset or angry.

She is looking for an apology from my mother, should I tell my mother this?

My wife told me last night that she feels like she never had a choice, that we started dating at such a young age. She wishes she'd dated other people, and told me again that she feels like she only married me because she is was guilty that she cheated on me.

As for me, I'm staying positive. Looking forward to spending more time with my kids. My D2 birthday this weekend will be fun and I've gotten further information about some cooking classes for January.

SIC

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011