This last week has seemed like an eternity. W and I bumped heads a little over kids being hurt when with her... Minor things but considering they are rarely with her it's concerning. I mentioned to her that they were hurt and I would appreciate if she kept me informed when they are instead of dropping them and running off without a word. Of course she got upset and accused me of scanning them for injuries... Actually my D6 told me of her cut and my D18mo falling off a bunk bed and then I scanned. At any rate, she started flipping out on emails, which I ignored. Her last email said she was blocking me from sending emails... Our only way to communicate... She then indicated we would be using a notebook to write messages re the kids. The next morning she handed it to me. I said I am not hand writing messages in today's day in age, when email is effective and faster. I told her I didn't want to fight and just wanted to be informed about the kids. She agreed and moved my car into the car port for me, which was as nice as she's been for a while.
That night she asked about switching vehicles... I told her she needed to because I was going out and likely sleeping somewhere else that night. She immediately said she would switch in the morning ad if to ruin my plans. She seemed angry, parked the suv in the middle of the alley and drove off like a madman. I can only suspect she was stressed or angry I was going out. I can't see why shed be pissed I was going out since she still doesn't want me.
The day following my outing... The morning she still looked pissed... I was upbeat and pleasant... Switched kids went inside. She pulls around to the front knocks on door... Tried to hand me a $35 check for wraparound (aftercare for our D3). It's complicated, but she agreed to pay the entire $210 since I paid something else. I told her that was not the deal, I wouldn't accept and we could deal with lawyers on it. She emailed some drama, I responded with a short message regarding the initial agreement and told her I wasn't going to discuss money issues with her.
