True, I understand what you are saying. However, what advice can I give when anything I say may be changed, deleted, or just get me banned. The only thing that seems to be allowed these days is coddling, asking people if they have read DR/DB, or if they are doing coaching. You can not even recommend any reading material to anyone that is not written by MWD. I understand that this site is for profit, but it is also to help people. While MWD theory of DB'ing is good, it is not always a one size fits all. There are many cases, proven on here, but most have been deleted, where exposure has been very effective. But if I recommend that someone expose a wayward spouse, I will most likely be immediately banned. Most everyone who has spent any amount of time on these boards would tell you that Puppy Dog Tails, Allen_A, Coach, Greek, DanF, Gucci, just to name a few, offered amazing advice, but none are to be found on these boards any longer.
