Wednesday is a usual visitation day, and it does say in the current papers that if there is no school on his visitation day he can get DS at 11 in the morning. Which I'm fine with, if H wants DS at 11 then by all means, pick him up at 11. But the BS about how if he has to drive those two extra miles to my mother's then I have to drive the extra 20 minutes (don't know how many miles) to his place to get DS is what has me so frustrated. Last time I attempted to drive there I had a full-blown panic attack. And H saw me in the midst of it, he knows what trying to go there does to me. But he thinks I need to get over it and do what he wants me to do.
DS is with me for Thanksgiving this year, then back to H's on Friday for his weekend visitation.
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