That was a very jerk thing for your H to do. he was simply punishing you because you wouldn't let him get S at 11!!!

So what did you end up doing?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004