H in crisis and self medicating with OW

[angel61]

Nicole, yes, thats the risk. I heard that too, and from two of my friends in real life whose H's had A's. They both said when the H realized that they were willing to be leave, that when the tide turned. Actually, for me, I noticed change the day I told my H that if not for D, i would leave, because although I love him, no one could stand the pain everyday.