Hey Warrior, gonna steal your post-stealing idea. Found somethin’ I need to mull over for a bit too.
On the cheating, I am sure it has to do with how I "teach" people to interact with me. Still working on figuring out what I do specifically.
In general terms though, I forgive way too easy, even when someone doesn't ask for it. I also am horrible at setting boundries. I also tend to equate trus with love. It was one thing that got in the way of me seeing the MLC storm brewing. It also got in the way of me confronting my H before he had emotionally checked out.