Starting on a different path

[Mystik]

I love my H, I do, but my word he can be difficult!

DS has off from school tomorrow and Friday. So I texted H this morning letting him know DS would be at my mother's both days. He texted back saying if I was working tomorrow or Friday he'd get DS from me at work. I said Friday was fine, but not tomorrow. I was tied up all day, could get DS to the exchange place at 5. He said back that he is supposed to get DS earlier on non-school days so he'd be at the exchange place at 11. I said it was not possible, earliest I could get DS there was 5. So he said if he has to pick up DS from my mother's then I have to drive to where he lives to get DS. I said I would not do that, so he repeated exchange place at 11, who would I get to bring DS there. I said the only people I could ask are my brother or neice, both are 17 and that DS was looking forward to being at my mother's tomorrow. He repeated that if he gets DS from my mother's I need to pick up DS from where he lives. I didn't answer so he texted, and I quote: "Pick your poison, it's time to put your big girl panties on and actually accept the situation. if you're going to spring this last moment thing don't be surprised when it doesn't work."

I want to reply with a big F*ck you, but I know that won't be very helfpul. I want to tell him that the reason I can't get DS to the exchange place tomorrow is because I'm so messed up from him leaving me I need psychiatric treatment. I want to tell him to stop playing games and grow up, he can't force me to ever go to where he lives. I want to reply that it's not last moment, I gave him about 24 hours notice.

It's times like this I wish H would forget DS is his and then I wouldn't have to deal with this hurt and BS.