Mila,

I am so jealous. My H & I can't even email without starting a fight, much less talk on the phone. He says "Are we going to be able to settle this thing out of court?", and if I start to discuss it, he raises both hands and walks away. What he's really saying is "Are you going to let me bully you into doing what I want?"

Mila, you have come so far from when I first started on the Boards. You sound wonderful, confident, serene. AND, you don't seem to be letting the Holidays get to you. Again, I'm jealous.
Oh, and Happy Thanksgiving.