I think one reason that it's so important to GAL for yourself....and to make changes for yourself.....is b/c a WAS almost has another sense about those things. It's as if they can smell it when it's to draw them back. They also can tell when it's not for show, and it's not you trying to get them back!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
