She told me to be miserable, divorce, or detatch and go on with my life.
What are you choosing ?
I chose to stay married and work on the marriage, she cannot tell me when but she stopped trying along time ago, the last time she went to the MC was the first time we talked to her seperately and our MC is pro marriage, after that MC kept asking me to try to get her to talk to someone even if it was not her.
She said she did not want to talk with anyone else yet she chose to talk to another man.
Yes i still love her and i want my family, it is not about control for me anymore but wanting that open and honest relationship. She does not want that and has not been transparent for a year.
Yes i am still here, just has gotten worse, I have done some stupid stuff, to much to type right now, keep thinking it could not get worse but i find out more each day. Thanks for asking
If anything i can gain out of this whole experience is finally realized something pertaining to my children.
If what you are doing is not working, try something different. The past two weeks i have had the chance to get them up and ready for school and the times before this did not go well.
Also i have changed my discipline with my son dramatically, no more spanking or in the corner, but he is sent to his room and this has worked very well, alot of times he ends up falling asleep.
Just Rambling but my daughter and I watched the original Where the Red Fern grows, we had both seen the remake, but of course i ended up crying at the end, I wish i could remember the line the mother makes about family< anyone
