How much longer in Separated?

[jon2911]

Your married friends are jealous because they see you have a freedom that they feel they lack. But that's not actually the case. They just have gotten into routines in their lives that are comfortable and boring. They look back and miss the excitement of dating, but they don't realize they can have that in their marriage too.

That's a great lesson, isn't it? I don't ever want to fall back into that, married or not.

I'm feeling down this week. W and I have missed our nightly talk the last few nights, just the wrong timing on calls. She IM'd with me a little earlier today. It looks like I'll be 30 minutes away from her at Thanksgiving but won't get to see her. I'm hoping we can work something out for Friday.

I've been feeling like we've cooled off, read through her texts from the last couple months and confirmed that. It could just be that things with GFIL are so tough.

I'm just frustrated with the sitch, working so hard on this work project that the holidays snuck up on me. The break will be nice though, whether I get to see W or not.