Immediate Help Needed on Confronting Spouce

[MrBond]

If you two really are on the way to recovery, I think you both need to get some professional help. Too many times on these boards I've seen people stop trying after their spouses come back and then the same problems resurface.

And in the case of A's, it's not unusual for there to be false reconciliations where both of you aren't on the same level. Those are to be expected. But if you two stick with it, you can come out a much stronger couple.