Now is the time to protect your heart...by keeping it OPEN, and keeping hers open.
I know she is going through something and not sure what to do. I'm just trying to decide if she really is thinking of going back to him or going through the natural progression of getting over an intense relationship. To be honest, I'm not sure how much more I can take of this.
Your behavior now will be key. She has to be grieving the situation, working through it, and while that is painful for you, it will be so worthy it down the line when your marriage has healed. Her love for you will grow stronger when she sees how kind you've been.
