Hit by truck 2 months ago

[habitacker]

I know you are right. I am still pretty new at this. I am getting better. I have made all the beginner mistakes, pursuing,begging etc. I think I wasted the first 2 months. She actually never said those dreaded words, I WANT A DIVORCE, until 2 weeks ago when I pushed her for answers. Now that she has actually said them it almost feels like it is easier for her to let go.
I really feel pretty good about my changes. A lot more work to do though. I really wish I could share my good feeling with her but I will just have to see if she notices.
It still bugs me though that she is not the type of person to initiate any conversation about things like this. I know this is one of our biggest problems that I now see. Her holding everything inside is one of the reasons we are where we are. No problems were realized, and everything built up to this. I know I did not communicate well either, but I, a typical husband, did not see it until I got, as the thread title says, Hit by a truck.