I told him that I needed to go because I was running late and he made a noise like he was mad about me getting off of the phone. And I also told him that he would have to let me know a few days before he wanted to get together so I don't make plans. Another noise.
I think you are doing this right ^^^^^^^^
My W gets the same way when I do this and it must make their imagination run. After all, you should be miserable right?? You are making him angry that you have more on your plate than thinking about him.
It seems like you (me too) have to balance it a little once in a while.
Your end game is not to punish but love from a distance.
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Then he says to me that he was going away for the holiday and I said that our D14 will be upset, then he comes off with well, no one will have to worry about me again soon.
My wife says stuff like this and will purposely ride without a helmet when riding motorcycle with her brother. Warped way of thinking. (Takes lots more risks and says at least you are still on my (her) life insurance).
Still seems like a lot of running away behavior to me.
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A good friend of mine said to me, I wonder if he is reaching out for you to say you want to work things out, because you are no longer crying and GAL and acting as if the stuff he has been doing is not bothering you.
I would be very careful of this ^^^^ too. It seems like you are.
Remember, you don't want them back if they are not done.
Can't imagine having to go through this again if they come back before they are done with the crisis.
