Today I am very frustrated! We had sex saturday and I had to be the one to initiate or it would not have happened. I felt great and even she was a little more upbeat the next day. Then before we went to be on Sunday she says before bed you are not getting any tonight. I did not expect sex nor did I give any indication that I was going to try. What does that mean??? I fear I will have to wait another month before we do it again. Does this all mean lack of respect or lack of love? the sex was good but was only for about 15 minuts, no mind blowing session. We have not had one of those in years! Any thoughts??
I would also like to ask does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do here? Should I keep trying to initiate? When rejected how should I handle it? Do I just keep letting it fall to the waist side?
