Mister- Your energy and focus shouldn't be on snooping. Focus on doing the fun things, growing your love. Fill her heart. You can do this...and be the person giving advice. I believe that's what she really wants from you.
You are capable.
One thing....one flower 12 times is worth exponentially more than the cost of a dozen flowers.
I believe when you meet her needs, she's going to jump through hoops to meet yours. You're going to win this one.