Well H went to the place where my sister works and said Hi to her and she went off about what H did to me on Sat. night. She was at the house when H showed up.
He asked her if she would please call me and ask if I would call him because he needs to talk to me. I waited a while and texted him and told him if I got a chance because I was busy I would call him. But the text came back. Here he has my number blocked. So I texted my sister and told her that there is no way for me to call or text him cause he has my number blocked. I have NO clue why he did that cause I haven't made any contact with him.
So he starts to call my phone over and over again. I finally answer it and he starts to tell me that he's not dropping me from his benefits and that he told my lawyer that in the hearing at the end of it I should say. I wasn't there, cause I don't have any time at work and my lawyer said I didn't need to be there which is also a 180 for me as far as not going to a hearing.
I was on conference with the hearing and I did not hear my H say anything like that and I'm sure my lawyer would have told me.
H also told me he was sorry for Sat. night and he was wrong. Wow, the first time he said he was sorry for anything in the past 2 years. And also told me that there is no one in his life and that he tells me that sometimes because he knows it will bother me. Then he says to me that he was going away for the holiday and I said that our D14 will be upset, then he comes off with well, no one will have to worry about me again soon.
I didn't ask what he meant by that because the last time he said it to me months ago, he just said never mind. I told him we need to get together before the next hearing and try to work things out because I don't want to take him for everything, I just need to survive for me and the kids. He told me, he will contact me before the 16th which is the next hearing date for support.
I told him that I needed to go because I was running late and he made a noise like he was mad about me getting off of the phone. And I also told him that he would have to let me know a few days before he wanted to get together so I don't make plans. Another noise.
A good friend of mine said to me, I wonder if he is reaching out for you to say you want to work things out, because you are no longer crying and GAL and acting as if the stuff he has been doing is not bothering you.
I said to her, I have NO clue and I doubt it. And that he is only worried about how much money he will have to pay because it seems like that is all he has been worried about. And he makes almost 3 times what I make. She in return said, exactly. Now he sees that the grass isn't greener on the other side. And that he said when he was leaving he wanted to have cash in his pockets and to be able to pay for vacations in cash and was sick of living pay check to pay check. And him moving out, didn't work out the way he thought it would, run from his financial responsibilities like they were going to disappear.
