As for your past history with cheaters...yi yi yi.... she and I had THIS conversation the other day. I can't speak for you, Zen, but my bff said what I THINK you are saying, which is something like this: "what's up with MY choices if this keeps happening? Are all men pigs, or is it something I do, or what?"
Hi Zen,
I can totally relate to what 25 and you are saying.
I started to post a long post on your thread and decided it was too much about me. So I posted it in my thread for my journey through this.