I think its over help pls

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Is now the time to take action though. She has found out what she can afford. She wants to buy she says she is serious but avoids D discussion. She/we is supposed to have a seperation plan ready for next week for councillor to go over. I do not want to traumatize kids right at the holidays. Should I just back off more for the next month? Observe report note what's going on and go from there. Or as just suggested to me by an L start the D paperwork. I really want to save this I believe I can get over it.
Does not stopping the kids from waking her up anymore count as a 180 when she thinks they wont miss her?