I had a pretty good weekend, despite having a bit of a breakdown yesterday
IMO, nothing like a good cry to clean the spirit! Keep letting it out Handling.
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Things are not how they SHOULD be for her, and I wish I could change them - but I can't, so will forgive myself for the breakdown and do my best to do the best I can for her.
Atta a girl! You can’t change the word BUT you can be a light in it. You can be the best mom you can be for your D. The best you can is all YOU should ever ask of yourself.
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I'm doing my best to look forward to the holidays and creating new memories with my kids! This time of year is VERY difficult. I know I'm in a better place (in my head) than I have been for the last 3 years - so hope to keep rolling and forging ahead!!
Do something totally different this year if you can. Change things up a bit. Yes this time of year is difficult – no doubt. Sounds like you are in a better place. Use the anger and hurt to move you forward. Use it to help you stand up and do what YOU need to do for YOU and the kids.
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Must be like the menstrual cycle thing - not counting Eric, of course.
I had my cycle the other day. Damn! LOL. On a serious note, I think each of us should allow ourselves a little time during this holiday season to:
1) Grieve and cry a little. Let not stuff it down and have it form bitterness. 2) Be grateful for what we do have. Take a moment and sit back and realize that there are some positive in each of our sitchs. Ya may have to search but trust me they are there.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
