At the beginning of this thread is my sitch.
She was married to exh at age 19 and they divorced after a couple years. I was never interested in the details to ask.

She and I didn't meet until she was 29, quite a distance from that marriage, and she had other relationships in between. So to answer your question, I don't know what happened with him. There hadn't been any contact that I know of until last April (according to her).

I believe he is just the catalyst that sprung WAWS.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."