You can't fight it, but it makes you feel like a criminal at times going through the process?
We have a near 50/50 split, but I have to pay her?
I questioned this, but its "policy", load of crap if you ask me!!!
But it has helped me to totally detach, it has also shown me her in a different light, she has always liked money, and the good things, problem is I gave them!
