25years: "I know we're supposed to "listen like a lover" (per my db coach)"

My DB coach also said she needs to re-connect with me emotionally, so I should be like a best friend to her. But I'm not helping with financial decisions, just listening and validating.

Rob1971: "At that point the damage had been done and I could never have gone back"

This is something that worries me, but I'm working through it.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."