Tough decision on the card. Since you and H are still working things out put from the _________ family. I feel it is a safe way to say Merry Christmas without alienating H, but also not necessarily saying you are together. You and S could be a family.
With H and the dreams, try to not think about it so much. Don't waste your energy and much needed sleep on that. Try to relax before bed and clear your mind. IT probably doesn't help that you usually talk or text H right before bed because that is when he is awake. Try to keep things light during that time so you can sleep.
Hope you have a great Thanksgiving!
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