I read my post again, I meant great post to be read by a newcomer like me who at first was getting confused by the mixed messages and almost did a confrontation when I was not ready yet!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go