Save, you're a godsend. Great advice and the one month or recovery per one month of the affair makes a lot of sense. As painful as it may be.
It was only $500 but I'm trying to take away any avenue that might make one of them want to try and connect. I know that if they really want to connect, they will, but I don't want to make it easy. What I really want to do is pay him a visit ...
BIG TIP: AT&T has a service where for $5 a month you can block up to 15 numbers from calling or texting your phone. His number has been blocked.
Tonight the OM put up song lyrics on his Facebook that basically told my wife he was done trying (basically a last ditch effort). She's sad and I don't know if this is just a natural progression of letting go of the affair, or if this means I need to spring into action.
I have been the bigger man, but sometimes a guy just needs to be William Wallace. She basically gave me every option to leave her tonight, but I didn't. That being said, I am beyond devastated. I don't want to be a doormat, but I want to protect my marriage and my kids.
I know she is going through something and not sure what to do. I'm just trying to decide if she really is thinking of going back to him or going through the natural progression of getting over an intense relationship. To be honest, I'm not sure how much more I can take of this.
I want to make the marriage work, but the roller coaster is killing me.
