I think that in their confused MLC mind they probably think that they are being helpful and caring when they tell us how to do the things that they used to take care of in the family.
Would it kill him to say I'll have that battery changed in D's car?...."let me do that for my D"....that would be so nice to hear. If he can't even do that I can certainly take care of it without his "advice".
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO