Hit by truck 2 months ago

[habitacker]

What exactly are people saying when you should not believe what waw is saying and only 50% of what you see. Can I get some examples of this? And could it mean when she says she wants a divorce, she doesn't really mean it? I get mixed signals at home. Everyday is fine, like nothing is wrong. Except there is no us.
MC thinks i should tell her the changes i have discovered in myself. Example: How I know anger was covering all my love. Now I no how to express my love and have tons of it and it has really shown with my kids. But now I don't have her to give it to. I have even found things spiritually. He thinks it is ok to talk about the things that have changed for me.
This makes sense because at some time she needs to see these things in me, but is this going against 180 approach and DBing.
I would not be making the discussion about her or the R, but more like excitement for me and changing my life.
It really does have me excited and it feels great, but I wish I could share it with her.
Should I keep this all to myself and wait for her to come to me about talking or does my MC have any positive points. Of course he is always telling me to assume it is over. I am tired of this. It is preparing me for the end. I feel better when I am excited about getting my marriage back.