H's MLC - he is still lost but I found myself

[Mila]

Journaling - H is back in town. First email was asking me if it's OK if D came over for diner to his place tonight...kind of apologetic for not giving me much notice. I said no problem.

As there was still no reply to my Separation Agreement email from last week, I sent another one. This time he replied that I could email it to him, he will read through it and then we can talk about it when we meet. So my lawyer emailed it to him...just received a cc on it.

Earlier my D called me that her car won't start, told her that it's probably the battery (we knew that it may need a replacing) and that I'm coming with the jumper cables. She was worried that I will electrocute myself LOL since I've never done that before, so she called H as well, so all three of us meet in the school parking lot. Him big smile...hi...and I said I could have done it by myself...him "don't worry sweetie" and he took charge and got it started. D then invited him over to look at her new bird, he asked if it's OK with me, I said yes.
H came over went to D's room, then she called me to help her with her other bird...so the 2 of us girls were chasing and playing with budgies while he observed. Then I went upstairs and he left in a bit...didn't say bye to me.

Oh and D told me that he asked her to pick him up at the airport... can't believe the nerve coming from visiting OW and asking his teen to pick him up? She couldn't anyway so he had to take a bus from the airport.

Way too much interaction with him today...I kept polite and nice even offered him some tea when he was visiting D...but it does disturb my peace seeing him and having to talk to him.

He irritated me by telling me what to do..."why didn't you ask the dealer to put the winter tires on D's car?" (Well I tried but they had no facilities there) Or telling me that I should have D's battery replaced and where to take it...why doesn't he bloody do something for her instead of telling me what to do and correcting and criticizing everything I do?

OK a bit of venting LOL....