mad I am beyond upset right now!!! My bestfriend (she was my bestfriend in highschool and roomie in college) we live in different states, but talk about 10 times a week - so very close. She knows everything that I am going through with my H and the OW and how it has turned my life upside down.

So I find out that this guy that we went to HS with (who is married with children)and my BFF found each other on Facebook, had an affair. He ended up breaking it off because he loves his wife and his family. His wife never found out. No one knew except me and another friend of ours. My BFF and this guy end up staying "friends". texting, calling, facebooking. My BFF is totally in love with this guy (whatever), claims that they are soul mates (whatever) but settles for being best friends (whatever).

Anyway, I was on FB today and I saw that this guy and his wife and kids went to visit my BFF and her family on thier way to the wife's family for Thanksgiving! My BFF posted photos of all of them together, him, wife, my BFF and all of their kids! WTF!!!! REALLY?!

How could she? I am horrified. This is my best friend I am talking about! I can't even call her because I am afraid of what I might say to her.


TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12