No, I don't think she ever did hit rock bottom. For her OM had absolutly nothing to do with our initial breakup, and she said if he died tommorrow (fingers crossed) it wouldn't change the way she feels now. I agree that we had been doing the wrong things for years and our relationship could have never been fixed unless something dramatic happened. My W has been working with an IC and is really beginning to find herself. She has worked very hard, and the change is amazing. Sure I am willing to compromise on sex, I guess my biggest problem with her is she'll say we will do it tommorrow... and then the next night is we will do it tommorrow... that gets real old and frustrating for me. She has been crying sometimes during sex (because it doesn't feel right) although she still orgasms, so I pretty much said that we should stop.
