Good news though, my friend whom has been going through the exact same thing as me really thinks him and his W can work it out. They had a fake reconcilliation 3 months ago. Nothing had changed and he moved out and felt for sure it was over. 2 months ago she wanted it to work again and he denied denied denied. Finally she broke down, hit rock bottom. Came clean with everything, got on medication and started IC.
I really think that is the point where reconcillation can be successful. When both parties are really ready to break down all the walls, be 100% honest and be ready to move forward as a team. I wish him the best of luck because of course their will be some rocky roads ahead.
