When you do a page in your Daughter's scrapbook...
That is for her, not the marriage.
Try to change your focus of the reason and things get "fun" again...
Do those things because you want to do them......
Friends and family will try to "guide" you through this time.
Most of them just want to see you , not in pain anymore.
This causes them to "tell" you what you should or shouldn't do.
The decision to stand for your marriage needs to burn internally, not externally.
If you have chosen to stand, then that is what you need to do.
If they are true to you....They will ask how you need support.
There is no harm in stating that this is your decision, and I would like your support , rather than your fixes for me. And if you cannot, then we cannot talk about this anymore.
