So how does a person know if they should continue to snoop to find out the truth or try and just let things run their course? I hate not knowing what is going on. I did record some conversations recently after one of their concert trips and didn't come away with anything positive. No PA, but definitely EA from the conversations I could make out that she had with her three friends. I am going to feel so different now around those friends after hearing them talk about their spouses too. I think the whole group of them are in the same mindset right now. They all want to go out and get totally drunk and get all of this attention from guys. A few have a specific person they want more attention from. Not sure where to go or what to do now. I will try and make time to read the book Divorce Busting. I just started it a few days ago. This sucks, I can't believe someone you know so well and that you spent so much of your life with throws it all away like trash. They know what they are doing is wrong, but try and justify it in their head every which way they can...
