Keep on keeping on?

[DoneAfter10]

So, I've been trying the DB techniques/180s for about 10 days now. My WAH is not living at home and I only see him a couple of times a week when he visits our baby. The first weekend of doing the DB seemed to go pretty well--he told his mom we talked like we haven't talked in a long time. This weekend he seemed more shut down--not cold or anything like that--just more reserved that he had been. Not sure how to take that. Don't know if he is starting to doubt his leaving, but is too scared to say anything. Don't know if he is just miserable when he is at home and can't hide it. I just don't know. He is not indicating any change in his plans of not coming home. We do plan to spend Thanksgiving Day just us and the baby, but he is leaving to go out of state to his family after that. Just don't know what to do anymore. I know I can't expect major change after just 10 days of doing the DB, but I'm so ready to see something!! This probably makes no sense to anyone, but I just needed to vent and to see if anyone had any words of encouragement out there. Should I just stick to my tactics and see what happens? ugh!